I first heard about swinging from an online forum. When I presented the idea to my wife, she quickly rejected it saying that it is completely inacceptable for her. A couple of weeks later, we had a new neighbor. We invited them to dinner and we ended up talking about swinging. Apparently the couple had been swinging for quite some time and they eagerly shared their experiences. Later that night my wife asked about swinging, saying that she’s somehow intrigued by the fact that our new neighbor looks really happy. The next day, we were invited to our neighbor’s apartment; we had another conversation about swinging and this time my wife openly said about her doubts. They passionately explained how swinging had improved their love life; I know then that swinging is about trust and love.

It took quite a while for my wife to get comfortable with swinging. We attended several parties — with the help of our neighbor — and did nothing; we were just there to meet swinging couples and study more about the lifestyle. One day my wife finally decided to try swinging. We experimented on different kinds of swinging, starting from soft swinging, male-female-male as well as female-male-female threesomes, and several more forms until we are truly comfortable. Our love life has never been better, and we continue to enjoy swinging and experimenting on the swinger lifestyle ever since.