You may see single female treated differently from single male in the swingers’ community. There are a lot of pros and cons on this matter, but we are not going to discuss them here. What I’d like to discuss is the actual position of single female in the swingers’ community: an object of desire. There are literally countless ways to have single female(s) take part of your swinging experiences.

My favorite ‘use’ (if you mind me saying so) of female singles in swinging lifestyle is to have my wife toy with a single female we invited while I sit quietly and watch as the whole thing went down. Although this is not the only form, it is subjectively intriguing to see my wife work her way to satisfaction with the help of another female. There are also times when my wife actually brings me to the equation, placing me as a ‘victim’ while she and another single female toy with me all they like.

In parties, single females are also appreciated a lot. They are appreciated with unlimited access to swingers’ parties at all times because it is very pleasant just to have them around. I know several couples who love the company of single females in their swinging experiences because of the countless possibilities such as the one I talked about before.

The best thing to love about single females in the swinging community? Their mindsets. Single females are more pleasant to be around in swinging parties because they are less sex-oriented than most single guys I know and they are more open to possibilities and experiments. My wife and I always love the company of single females, and I’m sure most of you swinging couples do to. They will be part of this community for years to come, hands down.